ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover) is a community that includes individuals who enjoy wearing diapers and/or engaging in infantile behaviors as a form of expression or relaxation. Like any community, ABDL individuals should be treated with respect and sensitivity.
Here are some things you should avoid asking an ABDL person:
-
"Why do you like wearing diapers?" This question is personal and invasive. It's not appropriate to ask someone about their sexual preferences or interests.
-
"Do you think you're sick?" Asking an ABDL if they think they have a mental illness is stigmatizing and hurtful. It is also inaccurate since ABDL is not a mental illness.
-
"Can I change your diaper?" This question is inappropriate and intrusive. It's important to remember that ABDL individuals are not objects for others to use or fetishize.
-
"Do you have any childhood trauma?" This question implies that ABDL behavior is a result of past trauma, which is not always the case. It can also be hurtful to bring up someone's potential traumatic experiences without their consent.
-
"Can I see you in a diaper?" This question is voyeuristic and disrespectful. It's important to remember that ABDL individuals have boundaries and should not be treated as objects of fetishization.
Overall, it's important to approach ABDL individuals with respect, empathy, and understanding. If you're unsure about what questions are appropriate, it's better to ask them how they prefer to be addressed and what they're comfortable talking about.
